What Does “Ara Ara” Mean in Japanese? (Anime vs Real Life)

“Ara ara” is a Japanese phrase that is often used in anime. However, if you look up its meaning online you will often find a lot of misleading information. So I have decided to write this detailed post to explain the exact meaning of the phrase as well as the difference between what “Ara ara” means in real life and what it means in anime. Ara ara (あらあら) means “My my”, “Oh dear”, or “Oh me, oh my” in English and is mainly used by older females. Depending on the situation and the tone of voice it conveys mild surprise, compassion, affection, or disapproval. In anime, however, it is usually used in a suggestive way towards younger men.